Valentine’s Day is tomorrow and all thoughts will be on love. For those who are single and looking for love, or those whose relationship is feeling a bit ragged and needs healing, here are some simple spells I have found to help you attract new love or heal an existing one.
*Remember it is very bad Black Magic to try to force someone to fall in love with you or stay with you against their will. The healthy, White Magic, spiritual way is to focus on yourself and attracting healthy, happy love into your life.
Bringing a New Love Into Your Life Spell #1
You will need the following items for this spell:
- Jasmine Essential Oil
- 3 crystals – rose quartz is especially good
- 7 white candles (can be tea lights)
- 1 red candle
What to do.
Go into your bedroom and open your curtains. If it’s warm, open your windows and let the moonshine and breezes in.
Light the white candles and place them (safely) around your bedroom and make yourself comfortable on your bed, placing the unlit red candle on your bedside table. Hold the crystals in the hand you write with. Visualize yourself in love; happy, healthy love, given and received, enhancing your life. At this point, put a few drops of the jasmine oil on your heart and third eye.
Focus on the type of partner you want to share your days with and what type of relationship you wish to have. This is not about focussing on a specific person – it is about the loving energy and qualities you want to attract to you. Things like honesty, commitment, respect and affection for example. Close your eyes and visualize yourself with this love and happiness in your life.
Focus on the three crystals in your hand and imagine them filling with the positive love emotions you generate and your wish to attract love into your life. Then set the stones around your red candle. Light your candle and let it burn all the way down. As the candle slowly burns, the energy you charged the stones with is released.
Attracting New Love Spell #2
You will need the following items for this spell:
- 1 red pen
- 1 sheet of paper
- 1 envelope
- Your perfume
- A red lipstick
- Some petals from your favourite flower
- a red candle.
This spell is best performed on a Friday night or on a full moon.
What to do:
Write what you want in a lover on the paper, with your red pen.
Spray the paper with a little perfume and place in the envelope.
Now light the candle and hold the flower petals in you’re right hand, visualize yourself happy and in love.
As you do this say aloud or to yourself:
I call upon forces higher than I,
To Awaken the dream I hold inside,
Through this connection know my need,
I ask for loves enchantment with all speed,
Blow the candle out.
Then drop the flower petals into the envelope. Seal the envelope then apply the red lipstick and kiss the envelope.
Sleep with the envelope under your pillow. If you want to break the spell later just open the envelope.
Healing an existing relationship
For this spell you will need:
- A white candle
- A pink candle
- A fireproof dish or bowl
- Matches or a lighter
- Pen and paper
- Two pieces of string
This spell requires about thirty minutes of prep work.
Begin by writing two letters. You can address them to the Universe or God or higher energies. In the first letter, describe the problems in your relationship and your feelings about it. Remember no one will ever see this so be very honest and get it all off your chest.
Now, write what you would like to happen in your relationship. How do you want your partner to act towards you? More communication, more affection, being more responsible etc. Focus on the positives and let yourself go in how you would like things to be. Try to make this letter be least as long, or longer, than your last letter.
When you have done this, take a few minutes to calm and centre yourself. Meditation and deep relaxed breathing may help, but make sure you are not all worked up when you do the spell.
Performing the Relationship Healing Spell
Gather all your spell ingredients (including the letters you wrote). Now light your white candle – representing peace, cleansing and spirituality- and your pink candle – representing love and affection.
Now take the first letter and place it in the fireproof dish. Light it on fire, and while it burns, feel the negative energies in your marriage or relationship burning away with it. Recite the following words:
“Sacred flames, carry these energies away,
Let my relationship begin anew today”
Take the second letter and the two pieces of string. Quickly read through the letter again, and take a few minutes to
visualise you and your loved one being happy and harmonious together.
Now take the two pieces of string and tie them together at one end to make one long piece of string. Make really sure that the knot is strong – it represents the bond between you and your partner. Fold the paper a few times and wrap the string around it. As you do so, say:
“Heal our love, heal our hearts
Bring us together in harmony, love and peace
May the strength of our bond increase”.
Focus again on happiness between you and your partner. Then bury the paper and string near a tree. (An apple tree is super great because they rule love – but any tree will work)